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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW with a high drive here. I really don't understand all those "if you woo her by helping around the house, she will want to have sex." No, she won't. Not the way OP wants it, anyway - he doesn't want it out of gratitude, he wants her to lust after him. And that is purely hormonal, I think. I've been married 12 years, we have sex 5-6 times a week but if it was up to me, it would be more often (it's not because jobs and small children make it impossible). But the thing is - I don't constantly jump my husband because he takes out the trash - I do so because I have a high drive and want sex. I love him, but I am pretty sure that unless I married someone I loathed, I'd still want regular sex with them. Just the way my hormones are wired. [b]If what OP wants isn't for his wife to have sex out of duty, gratitude, nonsexual love, I don't think it's going to happen if it hasn't happened. She's either sexually driven or not. It's not going to change[/b].[/quote]

OP here.  I assume this is probably the case, and thank you for not regurgitating the usual LD talking points. [/quote]

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