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Reply to "not so subtle weight comments from DH ruining my vacation"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. Wow I can't believe how many responses this got. We just got back and yes, the trip basically sucked. And yes, this is way more about my husband being a dick than about me being fat. I have no idea what to do. If I had no kids, I would be gone in a heartbeat. But I know that if I do leave, given the kids, I need to be able to tell myself that I tried my hardest. So how do I do that? I dont know[/quote] OP, as a woman, you need to look at your marriage with a bit of logic. What is your financial situation? Can you afford to raise your kids alone (putting aside child support. You will get it but it's never enough to make life easier). You need to put a plan in place for yourself and your children, OP. You should always have the option to leave. Put together a plan for what your life would be like without him. Maybe a smaller townhouse. Maybe working a bit more. You can lose weight, OP. About 180 pounds worth.[/quote]
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