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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are going to sleep with a coworker or colleague, at least make sure you get a big ass promotion out of the deal. Cheaters 101[/quote]

It's just as likely to lead to getting fired.

Also, I'm on Team Don't Tell. In a longtime marriage with kids and my spouse had a ONS one time, I would not want to know.  I know who he is with me, with our kids and that's enough. I don't need to know every little sexual thought he has, or about the one time thoughts turned into action. Now if it becomes a regular thing, then I would want to know because that would indicate an issue in our marriage, some underlying unhappiness.

I understand your guilt, Op, but that is your cross to bear for making a mistake. Think of it as a good thing, a quality that means you have a conscience and you love your husband. Some people cheat without one iota of thought for their spouse. Some do it as a passive-aggressive stab in the back. You're not one of them, and that's good. [/quote]

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