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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hear the men complaining about the waiting, but it is true that having sex with a guy too soon causes respect issues. If I don't care what a guy thinks of me, the reasons to delay sex are diminished.

As long as men associate a woman's value with her sexual availability, this will continue. Blame women all you want, but slut-shaming is forcing the behavior it is intended to discourage. 
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It's the man's fault women want to have their cake and eat it too.  gotcha[/quote]

It's the sexists' fault that women can't choose to have sex without being judged. Both men and women judge and slut-shame. If you engage in either, don't whine when it means you have to wait to get laid. [/quote]

Sounds like you are projecting your insecurities about your sexuality onto your prospective LTR partner (or assuming he is a sexist pig) if you behave toward him this way.  Feel free to do so, just don't expect him to understand if he finds out about your fuck buddy. "I really like you so I want to wait" just rings hollow in that scenario[/quote]

You can't take sex back. If I like a guy and don't know if he will judge, I am not going forward. If I know him well enough, then I make a decision based on available information. [/quote]

That statement by itself makes a LOT of sense. Where it derails and where you lose the argument is, while you're deciding whether or not to have sex with said guy based on available information, you're fucking the shit out of guy 2, where the ONLY information you've bothered to gather is how hot he is and what his abs and pecks look like.

Jesus. Nobody is telling women they aren't free to do the same things men do, but you seem to not grasp that men will react just as negatively as women when they find out they're being played. [/quote]

No, I said on the last page I thought that was deceptive. If you're going to date and have casual sex with others, it's best to be upfront. That goes for men and women. [/quote]

Now wait just one minute.  This is way too reasonable a response for this thread   :wink: [/quote]

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