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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are some things a mother doesn't need to know, especially about their adult children![/quote]

A mother needs to prepare her daughter for all the mixed messages she will get about sex:
Be an independent woman and have sex because it feels good but watch out for stds and getting pregnant because that won't feel good.
But don't be surprised when you fall for a man because of all that oxytocin but he does not fall for you.
It is fine to have sex before marriage but not too often because both men and women will slut shame you. Double standards still exist.

It is tough to be a young female and they are at so much more risk than men to get pregnant, slut-shamed, feel depressed because their hormones predispose them to "falling" for a man and it won't be recipricated, or sexually assaulted. Much more difficult to be a young woman and a mother needs to do so much more than give her daughter a number.[/quote]

So much of this is disgusting and sexist.  I've had sex with several men i didn't "fall" for.  I fell for several men I didn't have sex with.  And I certainly won't tell my daughter than she should or shouldn't have sex with someone because someone might slut shame her.  I hope she'll have the confidence and ownership over her body to make the choices that are right for her circumstances. And I'm definitely not worried she'll be some poor little woman ruled by her hormones.  Incredibly, many women have managed to overcone this. [/quote]

A lot of that sounded like sarcasm to me. [/quote]

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