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I'd like to note that Op started a thread titled in part "I'm considering moving on" and with the first post noting, "While I recognize his right to pursue bio children" and ending "I feel uncomfortable ... and I'm leaning towards moving on."

So. That was what happened. [/quote]

She acknowledged his right to have biological  children but is uncomfortable with it.  So [b]he has to give up his rights[/b] because she's uncomfortable if he exercises them?

Is that how it works?  People who have rights should give them up because it inconveniences other people?  OK but you go first, tell me which rights you are going to give up to your relationship partner.

Waiting....

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He has to give up his rights ... to prevent her from "moving on" from the relationship, like, you know, a free person?

Those rights?[/quote]

Who claimed he had a right to keep her from moving on?

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What rights was he having to give up on, then, if she just moved on? [/quote]

None of she moved on and no one is stopping her just like no one is stopping him.  Her expectation which she clearly stated was that he should give up his right to move on if she was infertile.   She is mad at him for expressing that right .[/quote]

No. They both get to move on. That's what breaking up means.[/quote]

Ok so why did she bother posting?  Of course she gets to moShe gotta be ve on but [b]she doesn't get to blame him[/b] for her decision to move on.  [/quote]

She gotta be stopped from that kind of thing, amirite?

Welp, this harridan has some fish and whatnots to fry, so imma head out. Keep an eye on those women and make sure they don't go around saying things you disagree with. Can't let that slide. Glad you're on the case, son. 
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No one can literally stop her so you're wrong again.  But obviously that kind of blame shifting needs to be pointed out, not enabled, because enabling will ensure her future relationships will also fail.  She needs to learn to take responsibility for her choices if she wants a successful relationship, not blame other people who are simply being honest and exercising their right to live the lives they choose.  That's called gaslighting and it's a bad habit.  Have a nice evening and I hope you have enough eye of bat,tongue if dog, blind worms sting, and other tasty ingredients that you will need for your kettle tonight.[/quote]

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