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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When did you get pregnant and meet?[/quote]

We met a weeks before my high school graduation. We dated for a few months, and then I got pregnant, and then we got married. [/quote]

Whose idea was it not to use birth control?[/quote]

I didn’t really know anything about birth control, but we did sometimes use protection. [/quote]

Again, extremely childish for an 18 year old and no excuse for a 40 year old father of 3. My kids learned a lot about birth control in middle school. [/quote]

It’s not extremely childish. [b]I just hadn’t thought of birth control or knew what it’s use was before we started dating. OP[/quote][/b]

Did you grow up in a religious cult? Were you Amish?  How does any teenager, ESPECIALLY one who was so mature you categorize her as "not a teenager when I was 18", not know the "use" of birth control?  Every American high school, barring the religious extremist ones, perhaps, would ensure you knew the "use" of birth control.  And even if it didn't, just living in the world and being exposed to movies/media/peers would instill this knowledge in you.[/quote]

No, I didn’t grow up in a religious cult. I didn’t know birth control was a thing, but that doesn’t mean that I was an immature teenager. I could still be mature by not knowing everything about everything. I did have health class, but that they didn’t talk about birth control. I didn’t really like watching movies/media, and my friends didn’t mention birth control. OP[/quote]

You didn't think to research it! You failed to take responsibility and make an effort to make good choices. That is the behavior of an immature teenager.

But anyway, to answer your question, this is not normal. Your marriage is bad and your husband is bad. You can try to say it's not true, but it is true and you know it. You wouldn't have written this post if everything were fine.[/quote]

Research something that I didn’t know about? I don’t think it was necessary anyways because he wanted a child, and I don’t regret my child. And I wasn’t a teenager, because saying that I was a teenager implies that I was a child, when I was not. OP[/quote]

If you had wanted to use birth control, would you have been able to access it?[/quote]

Dude back then it was free on campus and at planned parenthood [/quote]

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