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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is your daily reminder that while your kids may be the center of YOUR world, they are not in fact the center of THE world.[/quote]

Also a good daily reminder to brides and grooms that they can invite who they want but they can't force people to attend. [/quote]

And absolutely NO ONE said otherwise.[/quote]

Go back and read all the posts paying special attention to the ones calling parents "co dependent" or mocking them as bestest firstest ever wanting a participation trophy.

People are absolutely trashing the op for considering her baby's needs over her brother's courthouse wedding.[/quote]

She can consider her baby’s needs by simply replying no. But that’s not what happened here. [/quote]

It's always the parents making this a thing. They simply can't decline and leave it at that.

[quote]People are absolutely trashing the op for considering her baby's needs over her brother's courthouse wedding
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Wrong. OP is being called out for this:

OP: "Obviously it's 100% your right to have a child-free wedding but it [b]just seems very targeted at us[/b]"

It's targeted at OP if the invite read "OP's children are not invited". OP making this more than it is - simply a childfree wedding and dinner - is why OP is getting criticism.

Unless they specifically planned to have the wedding after OP had a baby - to intentionally exclude her - this "targeted" thinking is baseless, a manifestation of her frustration over a child free wedding.

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Op is the only guest with kids so by your logic then yes, it is directed at her. [/quote]

No, it's not targeted at her. The post you just read explained why:

"Unless they specifically planned to have the wedding after OP had a baby..."
"It's targeted at OP if the invite read 'OP's children are not invited'".

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Yes, if only one guest has kids it is targeted.[/quote]

Incorrect.[/quote]

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