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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you said ages ranged from people in their 20s to ~60. Were people mostly interacting with others of similar ages? Are 20-somethings having sex with 50-somethings?

Do people interact or have sex with others with a similar level of attractiveness? (Like cliquey groups in college?)[/quote]

Honestly, I wasn't really paying a lot of attention to the looks/ages of who was hooking up. I think there was a range, and it was clear that when big groups formed, they were of people who had developed relationships (or looked like they knew each other!). But, we had no problem talking to people. We sat on a sofa to observe at one point, and another couple came and sat near us, and we just started chatting. It was completely natural and normal.

I think if you were respectful, and thoughtful about how you approached a couple or single, you would likely at least be able to engage people in conversation. Think opening with 'Hi, I'm _____, this is my first time here.' and not 'Your boobs are gorgeous, want to F?'

I promise you, it's a way more normal party type environment then you would ever picture in your head. People are generally laid back, and they're more in their own heads than thinking about you unless you do something to put yourself on their radar. [/quote]

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