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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman with a high sex drive and I've always had good sexual relationships but I just can't get over the idea that there is something dysfunctional about this. Or unhealthy, but not in a physical way, more in a mental or emotional way.

Maybe once or twice, sure, but going on a regular basis seems deeply dysfunctional and I feel sorry for people who live their lives that way.

There is something pathetic about it.  Like we all have fantasies and sure think about people watching us have sex etc.  but to spend your Saturday nights standing around a bar and talking to strangers with your boobs hanging out, and then having your husband bang other women with you there, is just gross.  I'm sorry I try not to be judgmental but I honestly think this is not the kind of perversion that's actually good for people.

Find me a couple that actually has a good relationship and a good sex life that does this on a regular basis over the years. Just don't think it happens.     [/quote]

I think you are right if the scenario is that the woman does this but isn’t that into it. The way OP described this club being for the benefit of the men mainly made me feel that way. But I think there are probably ways to be non-monogamous that are fun for all! [/quote]

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