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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This one is simple…..

If your spouse or s/o has an issue w/you knowing their location at all times then there is something fundamental that they are trying to hide.😶‍🌫️ [/quote]

I gave nothing sinister to hide, but I don’t like sharing my location . Sometimes I just want to be alone and no, I don’t want to have a therapy-speak conversation about it. I need some privacy. [/quote]

Agree with this.

It’s like phones. I have no problem with my SO hopping on my phone when needed, like if he needs to pull up directions for me when I’m driving. But I would not like it if he constantly wanted to check my phone throughout the day for no real reason. If he’s concerned, he can talk to me like an adult, not monitor me like a parent.

Nothing to hide (except perhaps my excessive time on DCUM), but I don’t want to be treated like a child. And it’s actually very unhealthy to regulate your own emotions by monitoring others.

If you need location sharing to feel secure, there’s a much deeper issue going on. Feeling secure is a result of conversations and working through your own issues. Not of being hyper vigilant.[/quote]

It's almost like you can't actually understand that some people use the location for the exact same reason you use your husband's phone. I have my husband's password but never go through his phone. I also have his location but look at it once maybe every couple of months. It doesn't make me feel any more secure knowing where he is. [/quote]

It’s almost like you can’t actually understand I was responding to someone who said “if your spouse has an issue with you knowing their location at all times then there is something they are trying to hide” and then agreed with someone that I want some privacy.

Anyone who wants to know where their spouse is 24/7 or else they believe the spouse is up to something nefarious has major issues. This is very different than someone who can take or leave location tracking. [/quote]

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