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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]9:38 - You need to add that he's going to be very angry if she tries to leave when he's older. There are unspoken parts to the deal he's luring her with. One is that she's going to be his nurse as he ages. He'll fight her on everything in court if she tries to opt out of that. The attorneys fees will eat up any settlement. She'll end up poorer than she would have if she just focused on her career.

OP, you're in it for life or until he finds an upgrade. You're not going to walk away with his money.[/quote]

This is a good point. This relationship involves a lot of upside for him (you'll stay attractive until he is so old he doesn't care anymore, he will have someone to take care of him as he grows older), and a lot of downsides for her (blended family, no partner for the last 20 years of her life, and he won't actually be a true partner for the preceding 20 years while you are raising the kids.)

Right now, you are 27 and a phD candidate -- you are literally at the peak of your attractiveness and appearance of potential for partners. [b]You will NEVER have as many options as you have right now (options for women change a lot after 30). Is this really the choice you want to make?
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