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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve lived in D.C. for more than two decades, and I keep meeting women like the OP: forgettable personality, bare-minimum achiever (think used to make $85K and then became a SAHM), from a loser family and is therefore very jealous of good families, married to a Beta, low earner who no woman would ever want to take to bed.

This type is not intelligent or interesting enough to make friends or have a good time in social settings. Doesn’t have friends, so can only gossip/talk $hit about other women on anonymous online forums. Comes off as bland and like a Stage Five Clinger, so most secure, valuable women avoid her at all costs. Awkward and fake-shy/fake-nice to cover up the fact that she is enraged she isn’t funny, popular, smart, beautiful or successful by any measure.

Blandly volunteers and contributes nothing to any setting—work, volunteer orgs, PTA, neighborhood, her regular jazzercize studio (she’s too fat for barre) a wedding party, the dog park.

Has no friends and therefore judges and sneers at other types of female friendships, social circuses and groups of women. No one looks up to her or wants to engage with her.

Not here to discuss whether this type of person is good or bad. It's a type. There are many in D.C., and I would like to minimize my exposure to them. I have found that once I am in a community with this sort of person, it is hard to get her to ignore me or leave me alone, and she either tries to Single White Female me, or will just cowardly talk about me and functional adult women behind our backs. I really hate this, I don't want to be someone's unpaid social director or companion.

Directness doesn't work because they will either just cling and glom onto you, or their jealousy will overtake them, and they will run to DCUM to yap about you with not enough paragraph breaks.

So I give up. I just want one place where I can be social and have friends in D.C. where there isn't a woman like this. If this is you, where do you NOT go. Or have any of you found a secret place where these women aren't? I just want to be free. I am tired. Would moving away from D.C. help? If so, where?[/quote]
DP. What a nasty post. Why did OP trigger such meanness in you?[/quote]

OP here and it's nice of you to defend me but I don't feel called out by this because it doesn't describe me. I do find it bizarre my post made someone angry enough to write this though. [/quote]

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