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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff. [/quote]

You both work outside the home but “you work very hard” so you don’t need to “run the family”

Is the implication that although your wife also works and does everything for the kids and family that because she isn’t “working hard” at work it’s ok that everything is dumped on her forever?

And you probably did a “big move” with kids in elementary school a few years ago for your job (I imagine you would have said if it was for her job) but she’s been the person navigating the kids through that while you “play the long game.”

I’m surprised you can’t understand that your dropping the rope on literally everything except for your job has resulted in your wife not wanting to have sex with you. You need couples therapy if you want to save your marriage. You need to learn how to communicate and listen to each other, and then you need to figure out whether you have the capacity to stay married …. And how that marriage is going to look. [/quote]

+1 million

Truth. Close the thread.

Op can’t handle the truth.[/quote]

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