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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties. [/quote]

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though.  Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.[/quote]

I made this post and I an a 50 year old married woman. I made it based on seeing tons of 60-ish guys on dates with women who are younger than they are. If my husband divorced me or died I would date older men because most men like women younger than they are.[/quote]

Women have so much self hatred. I think this post is an example of that. Just thinking that you automatically need to date older men.

My mom met her second husband at 60 and he was just a couple years older, and it was the happiest relationship of her life.  [/quote]

I don't hate myself.  I am going by the pattern I have seen throughout my life of men with women who are younger than them, particularly the second marriage.  I am the same age as my husband so I know that some people marry at similar ages.  However if you look at online dating or go speed dating you will see that there are a lot of men looking for women who are 8-10 years younger than them. I have personally witnessed it at tons of social events and in online dating.

But saying what I see makes me a self hater apparently   Lol.[/quote]

Yes, I’m sure men on online dating would like to date a woman 10 years younger. No one is disputing that. What people are saying is statistically it is rare to date someone 10 years or younger. It just is what it is in. These are statistics and no matter how many 57-year-old men get on DCUM and say they’re banging hot 20-year-olds, it is simply not true.

The fact is less than 10% of couples in America are 10 years apart or older. People tend to date their age or around it and the outliers tend to be incredibly good looking and incredibly wealthy people. It just is what it is and the amount of hate posting about women will change it. [/quote]

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