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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m definitely on team A. Being late is so inconsiderate and reflects badly on the other spouse too. It’s not funny or cute to have zero time management. If you’re an adult, you put your big boy/girl pants on and get s**t done. If that involves starting to get ready 15m sooner then do it. Just because you’re an incompetent POS doesn’t mean the rest of the world needs to put up with it!

I don’t think what spouse A did was bad or rude at all. They needed to be somewhere at X time, and they left at the appropriate time to get there. If spouse b simply can’t be ready in time, what’s wrong with them showing up late? The only embarrassing thing I can see here is that it calls attention to WHOM is causing the lateness. Spouse A no longer wants to be lumped into the “always late couple” category, so has separated themselves. It’s now only spouse B that is the “always late person”, and they don’t like it. Easier to insulate your wrongdoings when it can’t be pinpointed to you directly 🙄[/quote]

No one cares if you get there separately.  Lots of people do this.  
It’s the name calling, anger, and generally trying to bring your spouse down that seems like the issue.  [/quote]

I love how details keep getting added. None of the stuff in your second line was what OP wrote. You just made it up.[/quote]

Read the thread.  It absolutely happened.

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It’s what other like you made up. Nothing that OP posted is remotely what you wrote.[/quote]

Okay.  Then what is Spouse B upset about?  
That their lovely spouse offered to call an Uber and told them to take as long as they wanted getting ready?

Or that Spouse A welcomed Spouse B to the table, introducing him to her work friends and handing him the drink she ordered him before his arrival?  
  
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Literally from the OP "Spouse B is furious with Spouse A and [b]feels[/b] they were trying to embarrass them." Everything else is conjecture. [/quote]

It unlikely to me that Spouse B is crazy and unable to observe the world around them.
 
It seems likely that Spouse A, who is indeed easily embarrassed and doesn’t want to look bad in front of people, doesn’t want to admit that they did, indeed, try to make Spouse B feel embarrassed.  [/quote]

It seems likely you are providing great latitude and unjustified benefit-of-the-doubt to Spouse B and OPs narration.

PP has to be a troll. Nobody is this stupid.

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