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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Disagree completely. Attractive women get this type of attention. Unattractive women do not. The attention and compliments do not mean you are getting “hit on.” These guys are respectfully and indirectly broadcasting their interest. This is because YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE. It is flattering.
There is no need to come to Jesus wtf
You sound jealous - does it make you feel better to put down others for feeling good about themselves? Maybe it is you that needs to come to Jesus. Or go get a haircut or some makeup or something.[/quote]

Your mistake is that you believe you receive attention from men mainly because you are attractive, not simply because you are a woman. Think for a moment.

Every day, women who are not deemed attractive receive attention from men. Have you ever been to a bar on or near a military base on a weekend night? Almost every woman in the bar receives a huge amount of attention, and I am sure these women ascribe the attention to their attractiveness rather than simply being a woman who is near men at that moment.

Most women overestimate their attractiveness based on the bias that men would not approach them if they were not attractive; instead of the non-biased estimate that men who want sex will approach women (attractive or not) to get it.[/quote]

So, the only reason a man will approach a woman is because they want sex?  I don’t buy it.

Some of these guys the PP described are too old to have sex and know they aren’t going to get it. SHe was describing the overly patronizing kind type of flirting that isn’t really flirting, but just treating women as objects that need to be protected and idolized rather than treating women as people.

I do agree that some men will give attention to women just because they are trained that way AND that that attention has more to do with being a woman than being attractive.

I disagree that this is healthy, or helps anyone in any way. I also disagree that the type of patronizing flirtation the PP describes is a way get some. Those men are mostly just acting out stereotypes/tropes. [/quote]

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