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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you having sex?[/quote]

OP here- yes we are, albeit not very often. Once every 10 days or so. It's not something I look forward to but feel like I need to to keep the peace.[/quote]
Please be a troll.[/quote]

I never understand troll accusations on here.

It's sad enough the people are so desperate that they post their problems on an anonymous forum, to be judged by countless strangers.

If by "troll" you mean someone who is making up a storyline, are there people really that desperate for attention that they make stuff up and post it on an online forum?[/quote]

I think that PP was hoping that OP is a troll because this is just a sad, sad story. I don't think OP is a troll at all but it would be nice if someone wasn't actually having sex she didn't want to appease her partner who has now giving her an STI.

Also, yes, people do make up stories on the internet. If you read Jeff's summaries on the home page, it happens surprisingly frequently and some of the posts really do go into great detail and the posters often spend significant time posting follow-ups. It's wild. [/quote]

I think a lot of us are having appeasement sex (I'm a guy) just to maintain our marriages. If that's all the sex that is left, it's no wonder that someone strays looking for something else (not talking about myself.)

I guess I'm a bit naiive aobut the internet.[/quote]

Why are you only having "appeasement" sex? Are you not attracted to your wife? [/quote]
People need to value themselves more. I will never force myself to have sex with anyone. If I don't want it, I won't do it. and wtf enjoys coercing or having sex under duress? I think the young people call that rape.[/quote]

My wife *wants* me to coerce her. She calls it "wooing." She thinks the man should be the initiator 100% of the time, because she wants to attention. Although I'd rather the intiatng be more equitable, if I don't do it, I wont be getting any. We're not young people.[/quote]

Yeah - agree there exists a wide range of normal behaviors.  And that’s not even getting into the world of “kink,” which the DSM classifies as normal too, provided it does not cause trauma or other mental disabilities / difficulties.

The PP you responded to make a ridiculously broad and often false, generalization.  She is probably trying to parrot some sort of position she picked up from misguided radical feminist dogma.[/quote]

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