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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. This makes me so sad reading that most of you think it’s normal for a mil to only care about her son and not her DIl. In my social circle all of my friends MIL’s ask about them as well. In fact some of them may ask about their DIL’s more than their sons as it’s typically the woman who goes through more stress during the early child rearing stages and who is always the one who goes through the pregnancy.

My mil always took an interest in my as my own person and not just someone who came alongside her grandchild and son. And for that I’m forever thankful to her and I take an interest in her as an individual as well.

It’s odd to me to be more concerned especially as a fellow woman with your son when his body isn’t the one recovering and going through physical trauma after recovering from first time child birth and let’s be real the mother is often the one who does the brunt of the work with the baby. Yes sadly even in2024.[/quote]

NP. This is DCUM. Most of these women passionately hate their lives, their kids, and their husbands. They also hate their MILs, as you can see. They are miserable people who wouldn’t understand a happy marriage and happy extended family if they were presented on a platter. What they don’t understand is that because they are raising kids this way, eventually their DILs will hate them too, and the cycle of miserable families will continue. [/quote]

No what I’m saying is that it’s sad that most mils seem not to care for their DILs when that doesn’t seem to be the norm in my life or in my social circle.

But on this thread they are saying the op at best should expect her mil to treat her like an acquaintance at best.

To me a mil since it has the term mother in it is like a second mother.[/quote]

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