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Reply to "Would you confront your husband/wife's Emotional Affair lover?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with PP. The woman hung up on her ex-affair partner/good friend, you are sabotaging yourself and keeping yourself from happiness. Bullshit you were "very happy" in your marriage while this was going on. You can't have strong intimate feelings for two men at the same time as an adult for any length of time. The affair guy was a fantasy. It wasn't real intimacy. Your relationship with your husband suffered/is suffering - I don't believe for a minute it's not. How would you feel if your husband felt like he was in love with another woman? It is seductive to fall into the trap of wanting what you can't have, but a shitty way to go through life. If you got together with this fantasy real life would intervene. Just like your husband, you would let each other down, piss each other off. Not saying it wouldn't work out but real life is real life. [/quote]
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