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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm one who's just come out of an emotional affair. I've talked to my husband about it though I did not describe it as an emotional affair. I told him I felt very strongly for this friend and that I also felt physically attracted to him. I was never sure whether I'd fallen in love with this friend or not. I'm starting to think a part of me must have, because it's extremely painful realizing the extent of my feelings for him and realizing that our friendship will never go back to what it was before it evolved into an emotional affair. And that in all likelihood, we won't end up being friends. This friend and I never spoke like lovers and certainly never acted like it. We were just really good friends who liked spending lots of time together. And I wasn't spending time with him b/c of any problems in my marriage. I'm very happy in my marriage.

The situation fills me with so much sadness though, b/c I feel I've lost a good friend, and I wish we could recover our friendship, and I wish that we could both work at the friendship and make sure that our feelings are kept under control. Because underneath it all, I can't help but feel that what we had was a good friendship that sometimes got confused with sexual attraction and feelings of tenderness. Is this completely naive? Has anyone had an emotional affair and managed to stay friends with the person? [/quote]

Temptation is too great with the friendship. Right now you feel sadness and maybe even wonder what could have been.  Not good to dwell on it.    Keep distant from the other man and give yourself time to focus on your family and marriage first. [/quote]

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