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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rigidity becomes necessary when a more causal approach leads to being chronically taken advantage of. [/quote]

OP, would Fair Play help?[/quote]

I’ve seen this mentioned a lot on this board. I think I’ll buy it.
About a year ago or so, I suggested we write down our individual loads. Like the things we own related to home kid family finances etc. we each drafted up our list and shared it.
Mine was probably 3x longer?
After he read mine, he went back to “edit” his list. He added random bs to make his list as long as mine. It was legit laughable. I’m talking about things like “manage Netflix and Hulu passwords”
“Call customer service representatives when internet is down”
“Filled out birth certificate paperwork”

Then he said the whole exercise was a farce.
A part of me hopes he doesn’t come back from this work trip. I think this often. I am not the best version of myself when he’s around. I have stayed quiet for so long to kept the peace and not risk an argument, at the expense of my inner turmoil. Today in his text rage he said that I act like taking care of “my daughter” is unbearable. Sometimes I wonder if I’m on a hidden camera show. Did I not see all these red flags before marriage? I’ve ignored my “knowing” for so long. I know I married the wrong person for me. I feel stuck.[/quote]

I'm not one of those people that comes on here to recommend divorce, but if this is how you truly feel, you should get out! Life is too short. If you have the financial means, you should really thinks seriously of moving on.[/quote]

OP does seem to find taking care of her daughter unbearable. Her DH isn’t wrong on that. I’d argue he feels the same, but still. [/quote]

You people are so dim.

I'm genuinely curious as to whether you have reading comprehension issues or you're truly just stupid.[/quote]

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