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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of people who claim to be "donut hole" families have lived lives of increasing lifestyle creep as their incomes have climbed up 200k, and then want to complain that they don't get enough need-based aid. Well, did you really need a new car every 5 years? Expensive vacations? To redo the kitchen?

If you want to argue that a family making over 200k is middle class, then live like middle class people -- budget, accept you won't be able to afford everything you want to do, and sock money away for retirement and college.

We make well under 200k and this is what we do, and we have friends making over who go out to eat three nights a week, drive luxury cars, and take multiple vacations overseas every year, have weekly cleaners, etc. Those people are not entitled to need-based aid. It's not my fault, or the college's fault, that they chose to just live nicer, more luxurious, easier lives instead of saving their additional income for their child's education. We've scrimped and saved and still won't have enough. AND work in helping professions. I don't cry myself to sleep over the doctors and consultants and well-paid feds who will be disappointed in their FA award while crying into their Tesla upholstery and trying to console themselves on the flight to Aruba. Boo freaking hoo.[/quote]

We make around 200k. Kids have never been abroad. Most vacations are to relatives, but we'll do long weekends at a cheap OBX hotel. Our cars get replaced at the 15 year mark and are not luxury. We still will not be able to pay 4x our annual income to put two kids through college. It's not a big deal because they can go to state school, but people pretending that people should attempt to live in poverty for the off chance that their kid gets into Harvard are insufferable. [/quote]
+1 My kid is going to a great state school, but that's because we can't afford expensive private -- donut family.  It's ridiculous for UMC to be expected to pay the same as wealthy families.   $220K in the DC area is considered MC, btw.    A HHI of $280K is not *that* different to $220K after taxes.
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It's $20-25K extra per year.  That's a huge difference.  If you have been making that for at least 4 years before college you could have saved $80K in just that timeframe.

Why does everyone feel entitled to expensive private college?  Just like most things in life, you go with what you can afford.  There are literally still the majority of colleges that are/can be affordable for your family.  Making $280K/year puts you in the Top 7-8% of all people in the USA.  Let that sink in.  You have so many more privileges than 92% of the people in our country.  
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I would ask, then, why do low income people think they are entitled to expensive private college?  People who aren't even paying a penny--not just UMC types who wish it was 30% cheaper.[/quote]

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