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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]long-term monogamy and sexual desire are incompatible. I am not sure this is unpopular, but people certainly don't want to acknowledge that monogamy as we know it has dire, dire consequences. [/quote]

Agree. It should be okay to not want sex after 20 years of a marriage. [/quote]

Desire waxes & wanes when you are 10, 20, 30 years into a marriage. 32 years together here & we are in a great patch right now, really enjoying it. Have had dry patches in the past. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water, sometimes you go through a rough patch & then things can be even better on the other side. [/quote]

Not all marriages are like yours which is why a lot of people divorce. My rough patch with my entire 10 year marriage. We didn’t have sex on our honeymoon… we never had dinner togethe… we didn’t spend any time together…and we didn’t have sex for seven out of 10 years. The whole rough patch nonsense is what put me in a state of mind that I needed to stay and then it would get better when in fact I really needed to get out immediately before I got trapped with a pregnancy that I didn’t want or plan.

Some people do you have rough patches, but rough patches should not last several years. And if there is a rough patch from the very beginning people should get divorced immediately[/quote]

Did you not go in marriage with eyes open wide? [/quote]

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