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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  I don’t think it’s realistic for someone to stay fit just for their spouse.  If that’s the only reason you’re doing it then your resolve will definitely weaken over time - especially during the young children years when resentment is also at its highest.

My wife and I both stay fit for a mixed bag of reasons.  For me, it’s a mix of vanity, health, feeling good and of course, wanting to look good for her to keep our sex life strong.

For her, she was a high school and college track athlete and has always stayed fit.  She likes to feel strong, empowered, healthy and confident.  She’s always been a head-turner so I don’t know that it’s even a novelty for her anymore, but she’s really sexy for her age.

We’ve been married 20 years.  I was married before to my first gf and college sweetheart.  She started really skinny and put on 50-60 lbs over the course of our relationship.  We never had kids, it was mostly from unhealthy lifestyle.  I have to admit, I wasn’t attracted to the heavier version of her but was always supportive, never negative and tried to get her to join me periodically in healthy activities. So, I’ve experienced both lifestyles and definitely prefer having a fit spouse.[/quote]

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