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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1 a.m. is a hard time to get up and get back to sleep if you need to be alert in the morning. Could you pump around 9 and go to bed for a few hours, have DH handle the 10 p.m. feeding, and then you take care of the middle of the night feedings? As others have said, this pattern may change in another 1-2 weeks, so you will continue to need to adjust by trial and error. If DH can take pre- midnight and you can take post, that might allow everyone to get a somewhat reasonable amount of uninterrupted sleep.[/quote]

OP here. I have discussed doing this and he said no. He will be going to bed at 10 and needs a full nights sleep. Now that he is back at work, he will be waking up at 6am to workout before getting ready for work. [/quote]

The fact that he won’t take a few weeks break from his 6am workout a couple of days a week makes him a jerk. You should really, really pay attention to this.

That said, you really are being a martyr. You have to do something differently to make this work.[/quote]

This is spot on.  Apparently, ESH.  [/quote]

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