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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find?  Seems like it shouldn't be[/quote]

As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.[/quote]

Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.[/quote]

Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )[/quote]

Okay the heightening surgery we need some breakthroughs on that. I can't be down for a whole year. I'm just saying everything physical you ladies can change with about 20 grand and a pretty short recovery. For us a lot of times it's not even feasible. Sure we can get you 300K some of us but the height requirements feel very exclusionary. It's not like getting a BBL, lipo or tit job. The height surgery means breaking bones for a couple of inches and you'll never be able to play sports again.

I'm just saying I know there are some fine medical minds amongst you ladies, give me some help please. Let's make 6 ft a standard achievable by all men for a price equivalent to a boob job because it's the fair thing to do.  [/quote]

Honestly it’s a preference not a requirement. I’ve been super attracted to men my height (5’9”) and shorter. Kind winning honest open trustworthy personality and solid stable secure responsible financials are much more important than height. Height just adds something to the sex life that is really nice to have (and actually contributes to the security feeling). [/quote]

Does height really add to the sex life?  Is it just in attraction or isnit something else?[/quote]

If you had asked me before last year I would have said height was unimportant. I am still very attracted to men my height and shorter. However, last year I started dating a man who is 6’2” for the first time in my life and the spark is intense. Also this is embarrassing to say but I did not realize that the endowment is proportional and although I would never previously have said that it matters now that I am aware of the difference, it matters. I still would not pass over a great shorter guy on this factor alone, nor would I stay with a talk jerk because of it. However it is a really nice “nice to have.”[/quote]

I don’t think the endowment being proportional bit is true. I’m a very short guy (bottom 5%) and top 1-2% endowed. [/quote]

It is statistically proportionate to height and shoe size. But as it’s a weak correlation shorter men have disproportionately larger endowment / relative their height. A tall woman in top 5% would have longer pathways as well. I am 5’8 when I was pregnant the baby was huge but I had a barely noticeable belly even at 8 months. The baby stretched inside along my cavities.

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/107906329300600305[/quote]

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