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[quote=Anonymous]No one would be on OP’s case if she had full time childcare and worked at a demanding job 10-15 hours/wk after kids went to bed. People mention doing that all of the time. The problem, OP, is that you have no boundaries. Everyone’s problem becomes your problem to solve, and you don’t stand up for yourself. Your husband knew that about you when he married you. That’s how he knows that he can get away with this behavior now. I don’t know exactly how to fix it, and I don’t know that you can fix it and maintain your marriage. Probably, if you want to keep your marriage and keep your husband happy, you are going to have to maintain boundaries with everything else in your life (job, kids, extended family), and keep a lot of your attention on him. [/quote]
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