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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp again. My point was that every couple has differences in opinion about some spending or priorities whether it is house or vacations or whatever.

I know for me 1 vacation per year would be a dealbreaker. Maybe it is a dealbreaker for OP that his future wife wanted to be a SAHM.[/quote]

You can’t base relationship decisions on number of vacations per year.[/quote]

I have been married for 15 years. [b]We go on 10 vacations per year - some small and some large.[/b] Dh doesn’t join us for all of them. He probably goes on 3-4 weeklong and then a handful of long weekends with us.

I once dated a guy who didn’t like to travel. He didn’t enjoy it and that was a dealbreaker for me. You can’t tell another person what is a dealbreaker for them.[/quote]

Wow. You know this is not the experience of the vast majority of people, right?[/quote]

Yes, I know we travel more than most. I was just saying lack of travel was a dealbreaker for me.

I’m grateful to have a loving DH who has always been generous to me. He treats me like a partner and makes me feel like his money is my money. I stay home with our 3 children. I used to work and Dh is the one who witnessed some awful nannies and loves that I stay home with the kids. He doesn’t care if I take the kids on vacation when they are off from school. He joins us if he can. We are big savers. Fortunately, Dh earns enough for us to live well and save a lot.

I remember a guy once told me that if he starts wanting the girl to pay for dinner, he knows he isn’t into her. Maybe one day, OP will find a woman he wants to be the mother of his children who he will want to love and spend the rest of his life with. Money shouldn’t be part of this equation. I know Dh and I don’t talk about money. We didn’t in the beginning or now. [/quote]

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