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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Anonymous wrote: I think anyone who put a baby up for adoption if asked later in life would say they were strongly encouraged by someone (family society adoption agency etc) just to save face and visit regrets. It’s only human. It doesn’t mean the decision was not the right one at the time. And what is best for the baby may not be what feels best to the mom.[/quote] This. There is a considerable amount of selfishness involved when women have children too early, without being in a stable relationship, without any means to support the child, and then go on to have other children (also by itinerant uncommitted relationships), and refuse to consider adoption or relinquishing custody (in the instance of kids who are placed into revolving foster care placements because bio mom can't ever get her act together). Relisha Rudd would be alive today if her mother had once considered the best interests of the child.[/quote]
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