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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, NP. And you cannot just act like telling your PIL that their time of arrival at your house on Christmas eve affects your sanity is normal.[/quote] Dear lord, it's a figure of speech, not OP saying she will literally end up in a mental institution if her in-laws arrive before 4:00. Some people are really contorting themselves to excuse the in-laws poor behavior. Is it because they are similarly badly behaved toward others, or are they such doormats that they would never stand up for their own needs and need to attack others for doing so to avoid admitting they bring it on themselves? Because they sure are projecting something. [/quote] Actually doormat behavior leads to this kind of behavior from OP. Draw your boundaries clear and firm. Don't use ridiculous figure of speeches to make your points and then cry when people use ridiculous language in return. [/quote]
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