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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a husband who is in sexless marriage, but it’s because my wife is chronically ill.  I do a stressful job, 90 percent of childcare not covered by a nanny.   Nearly all chores that are not outsourced as well. I would be up for sex every day if it was possible.

The women on this board who throw their relationships away because they are “frazzled” deserve the divorces that are in their future. [/quote]

I am sorry you are going through this.

Yes, a lot of divorced are people who sabotage their relationships by withholding affection and sex. It's a power play and one that always backfires with cheating and divorce. But you don't realize your mistake until the damage is done[/quote]
men seem to also withhold being a full partner.  They seem to think if they unload the dishwasher once, then that means that they contributed and they should get sex that night.[/quote]

Maybe the men would be better partners if they felt loved and supported?[/quote]

There seems to be a school of thought that regards this sort of giving from wife to husband as some sort of concession to the patriarchy. This thread is full of commenters who, judging from their posts, really despise men on a fundamental level. It's tough to imagine them being loving and supportive toward a husband. Or, maybe they just hate the idea of men even though "some of their best friends are male." [/quote]

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