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No lie there! I like your answer, those are exactly the things RedPill says to work on 100%. Men who focus on those things WILL do well.

But when asked "what do you want in a man" (<-- google that Q) women ignore all that and instead the answer is stuff like "good provider; good communicator; vulnerable; meets my emotional needs; treats me like an equal; caring at heart".  Men who focus on THESE things will not do well.[/quote]

Guys who focus on those things do just fine.  
Extroverted, well spoken men with high earning jobs and a lot of female friends that they treat as equals do just fine.  
I can’t think of one man like this who can’t find a date.  [/quote]

Extroverted rich men do pretty much just as well with short-term hookups. So, if you're just looking for sex, the "female friends" and "treat as equals" elements are maybe distractions. [/quote]

Ok.  But some of these responses are about long term relationships.  No one wants to be with someone who is vulnerable or trying to meet their emotional needs on a first date.  Most people take months before they feel that they know someone well enough to trust them to be vulnerable or to be able to recognize their emotional needs.  If you feel that you can do that within moments, then you are likely schizophrenic.  If you can feel you can do this after 2-3 dates, then you are probably a narcissist/borderline depending on your gender.  And if you feel like the other person is completely opaque, and you can never do this, then you are on the spectrum.

And those people who see others as real people, like themselves, and not as a means to an end have happier marriages, easier, better adjusted children, and more sex when married.

Marriage is where the caring, vulnerability, and meeting emotional needs comes in.  Not casual hook-ups.  [/quote]

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