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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am fantasizing about my ex boyfriend from college and wishing that he would have married me. [/quote]

What is our problem, PP? I've been doing the same and I don't get it. I'm happy in my life and haven't thought of him in years.[/quote]
This was 20 years ago and I’ve never gotten over the heartbreak. Ex and I dated in college. I was head over heels in love; he said that something wasn’t “clicking” (I hate that!) and broke up with me. After graduation, I dated someone else briefly. Ex came back into my life and we were FWBs for years. He n said he loved me, but was probably just using me. Then, he married his not very attractive on again off again girlfriend. I felt like the biggest loser and so used. Other couples in college we knew who started dating when we did are celebrating their 25 year anniversaries. WTF? I wanted to marry him so badly. I just still feel so sad about this. Why did he choose her over me? Don’t flame me, I already know what an idiot I am. But being stuck at home, all of these feelings have resurfaced for me. [/quote]

So, why did they bend for her and not us?  ie: get the xtra degree, etc.?  Did they know they lost out by losing us and they didn't want to go through it again? [/quote]
I don’t know. I have wondered this for 20 years. Not to brag, but I was beautiful, smart, kind, horny :lol:, fun, and head over heels in love with him. She is significantly less attractive, but she won the geography and timing battle. [/quote]
I am married, but I was never in love with him the same way. We were pretty happy in the beginning, but haven’t been happy in years. He has really changed in personality and is sometimes verbally abusive and withdrawn. And no, I have not talked with him much about the ex. I’m sure if we were happy I may not be fantasizing about my ex, even though I have always secretly thought about him over the years.  It just seems like everyone else I know got to marry the love of their lives and that they are all deliriously happy. I know that there are worse things going on in the world, but I feel like a failure.

Did you ever get married or are you still single?

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^^^It sucks when some other woman gets the life that you thought you were going to have. [/quote]

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