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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tear her a new asshole among the other parents. Immature, but too bad. I would make her so uncomfortable that she'd never want to show her face at school. I would even make sure her kids' teachers, principal, the school secretary know.

I wish you'd established expectations with her STBX about introducing girlfriends and boyfriends to the kids.

You sound nice, OP. I would be such an unrepentant bitch in your situation -- both to the AP and to the exDH. I would ensure my kids had no respect for her. (Yes, I know it's the exDH's "fault" he cheated, but I wouldn't want to get accused of parental alienation or whatever so I wouldn't badmouth the ex to young kids )[/quote]

Worst advice ever....this is selfish and only will make you feel better for a minute. If he is going to be with this woman and build a life with her, then you suck it up for what is best for your boys. I had the same situation, did it suck at first, yes, but my kids love her and she ended up being really awesome. I have come to appreciate her now that we are a year in and she respects me and her boundaries as just a bonus adult that loves my kids. I even call her when I am stuck at work to help me out with school pickup. [/quote]

OP already said she's not interested in doing any of that, she's moving on. Doesn't plan to ever had any type of relationship with AP. Minimal contact with the dad only regarding pick-up/drop-off info. If AP didn't respect a family, or didn't understand married men are off limits she can expect the same treatment.

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