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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tear her a new asshole among the other parents. Immature, but too bad. I would make her so uncomfortable that she'd never want to show her face at school. I would even make sure her kids' teachers, principal, the school secretary know.

I wish you'd established expectations with her STBX about introducing girlfriends and boyfriends to the kids.

You sound nice, OP. I would be such an unrepentant bitch in your situation -- both to the AP and to the exDH. I would ensure my kids had no respect for her. (Yes, I know it's the exDH's "fault" he cheated, but I wouldn't want to get accused of parental alienation or whatever so I wouldn't badmouth the ex to young kids )[/quote]

Worst advice ever....this is selfish and only will make you feel better for a minute. If he is going to be with this woman and build a life with her, then you suck it up for what is best for your boys. I had the same situation, did it suck at first, yes, but my kids love her and she ended up being really awesome. I have come to appreciate her now that we are a year in and she respects me and her boundaries as just a bonus adult that loves my kids. I even call her when I am stuck at work to help me out with school pickup. [/quote]

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