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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband thinks I don't know that [b]the emotional component of his relationship with his co-worker, at least, is still ongoing[/b]. I don't know if he sees himself as getting away with something or has totally justified it to himself. But I just can't deal with the fights from bringing it up. I know I can't make him stop. It's more useful to me to have a co-parent who isn't angry at me all the time for telling him to stop. You think, you confront your spouse about this, they stop, you either forgive or don't. But why would they stop? If they cared about respecting you, they wouldn't do it in the first place. [/quote]

You mean that they were once physical but now they're just friends?  And they still talk and hang out?

So sorry.  That must hurt like hell.  [/quote]

Yeah, they hang out outside of work and he doesn't tell me about it. They're not having sex, but I have no idea if there's whatever physical component you can do in public. It's not great. [/quote]

How do you know they're not having sex?

There are plenty of co-workers who have sex during lunchtime but never rent a hotel or get caught.

There are literally a million ways & places to go for free to have sex during the day which don't involve a hotel OR being seen by other people.

You're completely delusional if you believe that there's NO chance this could still be occurring in a physical manner. [/quote]
I think PP realizes this but is staying in the marriage for the co-parenting aspect. PP also said she is tracking him.[/quote]

Not PP, but nowhere in this post do I se that she's tracking goin anywhere. All she mentions is that they meet in public and I agree with the PP and say, so what that they're in public?

You don't think they could go to a public restaurant for lunch & sneak off to a single stall locked restroom for a quickie and anyone would even notice?[/quote]
PP said she tracks him in a different post not quoted above. But yes, tracking alone obviously wouldn't reveal who he's with at the time. How about a voice recorder, though?[/quote]

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