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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it, you wanted to punish her, and maybe she deserves it, but in the end you have to think about if your actions are contributing to the dysfunctions in your relationship or changing things, and by saying what you did, you heightened her insecurities, hurt her feelings, etc. it didn’t help.[/quote]

OP here. True. It wasn't a script I had written in advance... [/quote]

I understand. It happens.

Do you want to talk to her?[/quote]

OP here. I'm sure talking about it would indeed help. But anything to do with our intimacy issues has been difficult for us to talk about. That's why most marital issues are first and foremost communication issues... unless there are drugs, abuse, or cheating involved... and I don't think there are.  [/quote]

Why does she say no to counseling?[/quote]

OP here. We've been to counseling. Gave it two tries, each for around 4-6 months. She is the one who decided to quite both times. I feel bad about this, but do understand that it's not entirely her fault. Counseling, like most other things in life, does not work the same for all people. For her - it did not help.

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