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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife and I, in our 50s, have a pretty poor sex life, maybe 6-8x/year over the past few years with menopause, etc.

She asked me last year what I wanted for my birthday. I said passionate, intense sex. And she kind of chuckled and rolled her eyes. I said, "What's so funny about that?" She said no, really, what do you want. And I said exactly that. She was so dismissive. It led to an argument, not so much about the sex frequency, but about dismissing so easily what is important to me, and asking a question, getting an honest answer, and then not treating it that way.

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Could you imagine the reaction if his wife said the same thing.

Hey, for my birthday, can I have sex that actually feels good instead of what I usually get.

So clueless. [/quote]

Stop being immature. If sex is not pleasurable with your partner, communicate this to them. Be proactive or divorce. [/quote]

I agree, the passive aggressive H above should not bring up their boring sex life when his wife was planning his birthday.

If sex is not good, communicate that in a conversion about sex not a conversion about birthday presents. [/quote]

Reading comprehension is not your strong suit is it? The "passive aggressive" guy wasn't complaining about the quality of the sex, but rather the near total lack of it (6-8 times per year).  I realize that for you bitter dried up DCUM harpies, 6-8 times per year seems nightmarishly frequent, but it's pretty much the definition of a sexless marriage.[/quote]

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