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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A closed adopted does not assume the birth mother wanted no contact. Stop repeating this ad nauseum. It was designed to protect the ADOPTIVE PARENTS only. Keep in mind also that the birth father had zero rights for many years. It is pretty easy, btw, to find the bio mother without DNA...and much harder for her to find the adoptive family.[/quote] This brings up a good point. What if the birth mother chose closed as the best way to handle circumstances at that time, but since her situation changed and she now would be open to contact? Is that openness and opportunity lost because she chose a different option years ago? Just asking.[/quote] Well then, she may look for her child once they reach the age of 18, or she respects her original Choice. Either way, I don’t see how going to people that had nothing to do with the birth or adoption is okay or helpful?[/quote]
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