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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm shocked by the people who can't compromise on this board - especially when so much is at stake.

As the child of a divorce I can tell you that kids are NOT resilient.  Honestly, a piece of you dies every time you have to leave to go to the other parents house.  And step parents, my drunken stepdad beat the shit out of us and my teacher stepmom only wanted to be rid of us and only have her daughter around.

If you want to put your kids first, put your marriage first.  Give them a healthy, stable environment to grow up in.  Demonstrate for them what a functional, caring relationship is supposed to look like.  Care about meeting each other's needs.  Compromise.

My wife doesn't want to go at it like college kids and thats fine.  She never lets me go more than a week without some action.  Aso, I know when she's likely tired or not into it and I don't even ask.  But we make compromises and go out of our way to meet each other's needs.  That's what normal (people who aren't nuts) do.

If you don't do the same you'll only be creating mental issues that your kids will have to work through or spend the resto of their lives living with.

You're all better than that.[/quote]

Me too, it amazes me people will throw away their marriage and kids over what usually amounts to garbage. The so called blended family hasn't worked, and sometimes you can't stay married, but you clearly see people not trying. They cheat or divorce at the drop of a hat.

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