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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand this thinking that women are just blow up dolls who should put out whenever their husbands want. Do you really want to have sex with someone who is tired, cranky, and just plain not in the mood?[/quote]

No, I'd like you to be open-minded enough to attempt to get in the mood with a little coaxing. If it doesn't work, then maybe say, sweetheart, I'm just so exhausted right now, I'm afraid I'd fall asleep during your attempts to pleasure me. Can we just set the alarm a little early and try this in the morning? Or...I'll plan to feed the kids early tomorrow so we can get them to bed and have the night to ourselves.

That's an understandable and acceptable response.

Are you kidding me? You take the kids and do the laundry and then maybe I'll think about it....is not an acceptable reply.[/quote]

No thanks.  How about "Sweetheart, I'm not in the mood- not right now and not any time in the foreseeable future.  You'll be the first to know if that changes.  Now go take this romance novel and jerk off in the bath, thanks".

And you say:  alright.

That's an understandable and acceptable response. [/quote]

How about she gives him a BJ, which would require two minutes and very little effort on her part, and would make him feel perfectly happy?

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Gee I must be doing it wrong, it takes me 15-20 minutes.[/quote]

LOL! I'm only good giving a BJ for a few minutes at which point I'm ready to be satisfied. I'm sure my DH would like me to continue but I have my own needs. He's smart enough not to complain. [/quote]

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