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[quote=Anonymous]I suspect someone is a little defensive, no? Why are you so bothered when an anonymous person calls an anonymous person in what now seems likely a fictional story a bitch on an anonymous forum? If the family was genuinely dysfunctional then I think there's merit in being generous to Mary. Life is too short to be bitter. [quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure why you feel so strongly enough to call another poster an absolute idiot and claim it's the dumbest thing you have ever read, simply for suggesting that it's possible Thelma wasn't all cracked up as a mother, unless you have anger issues of your own. I love my mother, we have a wonderful relationship, which is why I find Thelma's behavior a bit odd. Maybe I just don't understand dysfunctional family dynamics. But it's pretty clear OP spun out a fictional story so all this angst is meaningless. We've given her a lot of amusement along the way and it's probably time to bring it to an end. [quote=Anonymous] You are an absolute idiot. This is one of the dumbest things I have ever read and reeks of projection. You should see a therapist about your anger and resentment issues. Or maybe you just need a good cry to let it all out. Let me guess, mommy didn't love you enough or breast feed you long enough?[/quote][/quote] I think calling a woman a bitch, that you have never met, over and over again, is idiotic, and reads as very stupid. And yes, there are a lot of dysfunctional families in America, and until you have lived in one, or have lived with children that push you past your limits, you will never understand what it takes to survive in that family. And that is not a knock on you. But the problem with a lot of people is because they can't relate to something, they simply believe it doesn't exist. Which is moronic in itself. It would be like me saying, "I can't imagine being gay, so they must not exist" or "they can be changed, with just enough therapy or religion"....[/quote][/quote]
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