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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yup, I'm learning this too. I take the kids on vacation, go on girls trips and rarely call him. It really seems to help. [/quote]

Yes to all this, plus extramarital sex. Unlike most men, my husband doesn't like frequent sex or much variety, so having someone else to explore that side with took a lot of pressure off of him.[/quote]

OK, we're not biting on this. We're not going to accept "have an affair" as good advice to preserve a marriage and keep it healthy. Do you what you want, but you don't get to act like cheating on your spouse is something a good wife and mother does.[/quote]

It's consistent with the theme of this thread, which is recognize that your partner doesn't exist to make you happy and that you have to make yourself happy. I don't want to be married to anyone else but I refuse to live without good sex. I'm like a stereotypical guy - four or five days without sex and I get very grumpy.[/quote]

And it wouldn't be OK for a guy, either. You took vows. Definitely legally binding vows, and most likely, religious vows as well. If DH doesn't make "enough" money, it is OK to go steal? Because both theft and adultery are immoral and selfish behaviors.[/quote]

No, but it's perfectly fine to get a job or get a second job.

Sometimes you have to cheat to save the marriage, because if you have to live with the crappy sex life in the marriage, you are going to have to divorce. Nobody wins in a divorce. [/quote]

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