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this is actually not that important (even if true). the key issue here is that, after one is 35, the quality of available men becomes absolutely terrible. it's not about women not looking that good or not being attractive, it's that men who are single at that point are, basically, garbage - either guys whom nobody wanted or guys who have one or another major somewhat hidden issue.[/quote]

You keep telling yourself this, while you cry yourself to sleep after another dateless weekend. At the same time, these "garbage" men are out banging attractive women in their late 20s and early 30s while you are busy posting on DCUM about how these guys are trash and obviously have something wrong with them.

No one has proposed to you for a reason.[/quote]

right. i married at 23 and have been married for 20 years now, thanks.

but i do have two close single friends in their forties who are both turning heads attractive (unlike me) and, through them, i know quite a bit about available men out there.

they are in fact garbage. the only objectively good guys are young guys who are simply too young for them - one of my friends is dating one such guy, who is almost 15 younger than her, but at least he is overall a good, capable guy, and attractive, too. more than anything, he is still capable of falling in love and their relationship is romantic. it's almost a normal relationship except that it's not going anywhere. this friend btw was married for 10+ years but is a widow.

the other one is trying to be more pragmatic and is settling aggressively - she has yet to show me a guy that i would consider dating. again, this is a person who is drop dead gorgeous but there is simply nobody left. why didn't she marry in time? that might have involved some less than prudent decision-making... but again, the point is that she is very attractive and attracts men - but basically all quality men her age and even several years younger are already taken.

to reiterate: [b]there is very likely something terribly wrong with any guy who is single at 35 and, and at 40+ this is an absolute certainty. that they are relentlessly "banging attractive xyz" doesn't make them any less (possibly even more) of a trash[/b].[/quote]

In addition, there is very likely something terribly wrong with any woman who is single at 35, and at 40+ this is an absolute certainty.  that they are "drop dead gorgeous" doesn't make them any less (possibly even more ) of a trash.[/quote]

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