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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you never loved him but talked yourself into marrying him because of what he brought to the table (successful high paying career, attractive, etc).  You probably convinced yourself you could grow to love him and that hasn't happened.  I'm sorry.  I think it's only fair to both of you to split.[/quote]

Yes this is exactly what happened. Everyone around me thought he was wonderful and amazing. And he *is* all of those things but he's still not right for ME for some reason. I try to explain this to the people closest to me and they think I am insane. It's like they're just not hearing me. Or they don't care. But life is about more than living in the picture perfec house with the picture perfect family. I have to live with him 24/7, not just in those nice, pretty moments that everyone else sees. I did settle and I bitterly regret it now. Word to the wise for any unattached women reading.[/quote]

Actually it sounds like he is the one who settled.  And I agree with the insane part.  You clearly are seriously emotionally disturbed.[/quote]

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