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[quote=Anonymous]OP I would also suggest individual therapy for you.  Explore self esteem issues and whether you are depressed.  As for lack of sexual chemistry, I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that you don't seem to have emotional chemistry.  Does he make you laugh? Do you find the same things funny? Do you give eachother knowing glances and know what the other is thinking?

You shouldn't spend your life miserable, OP.  And I'm not so sure that kids with a miserable but married mother are better off than kids with a happy but divorced mother.  The question is whether getting divorced will  make you happy.  Sometimes we carry the unhappiness with us into our next stage of life because the unhappiness is based more on internal rather than external factors.  This is what I'd encourage you to explore in therapy.

I would also suggest going on vacation with just your husband and trying to reconnect.  Can someone watch the kids for a few days? Even if you just go somewhere within driving distance for 3 or 4 nights.  [/quote]

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