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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an older child. I have never participated in changing the diapers of nor potty training the children of people I was not related to. When changing my child, I did it to give my child the privacy they deserved and I never looked at another naked child on purpose. Who are all these perverted people looking at other people's children and looking long enough to form an opinion on their genitalia? I think less of those people. [/quote]

That's fine, for you. But there are many people, myself included, who participate in some kind of baby-sitting swap that may at some point involving changing the diaper of someone else's child. I have changed the diapers of boy children that are not mine in that context, and yes, I have noticed if they are circumcised or not, in the same way I've noticed any other physical characteristic about that child. I'm not going out of my way to stare at the genitalia of someone else's child, but what you're saying is that in that situation, you would think less of me for changing a diaper? Should I allow my friend's son to sit in a poopy diaper until they get back from date night just so that you won't think less of me?[/quote]
No one questions your participation in babysitting swaps.  What people question is your assertion that "most" women have changed other baby boys' diapers and have thus noticed whether they were or were not circumcised. Several posters have already told you that while they have children, they've never changed another baby's diaper or looked at their genitals long enough to notice. [b]So don't make it sound like it's a common experience. It isn't. [/b] I have a 2-year old and I've never changed anyone else's diaper.  I thus remain blissfully unaware of my friends' son's foreskin status. [/quote]

Oh, but it is. Your experience is the uncommon one. Maybe you have a secluded lifestyle, not many friends. But most moms who are in moms' groups, have moms friends, have babysat, know can't do these things and not see other babies' having diapers changed.
NP, BTW.[/quote]

Yes, you belong to a special "friendly" group that gropes around in little boys diapers to check their circ status. Disgusting.[/quote]

NP here. You don't have any good arguments, and so you keep trying to cast your opponent as a pervert. THAT is disgusting.[/quote]

Agree.  Also suggest that those people who claim that there is something aesthetically wrong with a natural penis are the ones with the perversion.  Why else would they be so hung up about how it looks?[/quote]

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