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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It kind of speaks for itself that a thread on why men don’t date anymore devolves into back and forth quibbiling about money and sexy old successful singles calling men (who are presumably qualified to answer the question credibly) incels. There is a deep rot at the heart of gender relations. People are just really really bitter it seems.[/quote] We didn't become "sexy successful older singles". First of all, we are not even "singles" and never had been during adult phase of life. We who respond are married, were married, or all in long term relationships. So we base our opinions and recommendations based on our own life experience. Being married/partnered is one of the most important choice you make in life that determines your mental, physical and financial stability later in life. Read what Warren Buffet thinks about it: "Warren Buffett views marriage as the most important life and financial decision anyone can make. He emphasizes choosing a partner who inspires self-improvement, applying a pragmatic approach of low expectations rather than looking for a flawless fairytale. Marryng the "Right Person" is the most critical decision of a person's life, which profoundly shapes aspirations, daily habits, and overall success. Also being realistic and having low exceptions of a spouse is also very important" These men who are single until early 40s clearly didn't follow some of Buffet recommendations and their expectations are not aligned with their target dating group, for whichever reason. [/quote] Read up on Warren Buffet’s own marriage. [/quote] +1 He is in no position to give advice to modern day women, unless you are into polygamy [/quote] Warren Buffett's arrangement was hardly polygamy in the traditional sense. He was married on paper to one woman, but acted married in all other respects to another.[/quote] He did fine in life, relative to men who are single until age 41. Attracted 2 women long term, was committed to them, earned a fortune and respect in all areas of his life. Both of his "wives" are hardly sugar babies types but rather someone he respected and who were well integrated into his life in practical sense. I would totally agree with his viewpoint at marriage[/quote] His wife left him but did not want to limit her access to his funds so she chose not to divorce. Then she contacted her friend and made her a sister wife. If that is what you are into, then listen to him. Many women do not want to share their husbands.[/quote] If husband is Warren Buffet, many women would gladly share. LOL[/quote] Yes they would. Women who are interested in polygamy would. And his advice would apply very well to them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.[/quote] His advice on selecting long term partner is absolutely sound. He was in long term marriages, regardless how it's framed[/quote]
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