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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell him you’re keeping your own name and the kids that come out of your body will also have your name. (This is very normal these days.)  He’s welcome to join if he wants consistency.[/quote]

HAHAHA  where do you people come from !!!!
If you have a Spanish culture then things are different

I assume OP is a lily white over sensitized entitled tik tok brat from her comment.  No offense intended, just getting a baseline established.

I appreciate an independent woman.  My lily white wife kept her maiden name because of independence and career continuity in her profession.  [b]Doesn't bother me, but doesn't mean there hasn't been hassles over the years, several hassles and confusion.[/b]
 
Our son is getting married to a Latina and she will be taking his name simply based on this is America not Spain.

In either direction, couples are free to do what they desire.
But if you're willing to break up over a surname, then lady, you are not ready for marriage.  [/quote]

Can you please give us your example of all the hassles and confusion that her keeping her name has caused?[/quote]

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